Yes be kind but mostly to yourself. Be forgiving to yourself first in order to truly forgive others! Please do not be foolish And believe being kind does not mean you need to be a doormat. Strength and kindness comes from practice and belief. Try it on it will reply look good on you. Create your own understanding. You are worth the time.
Your understanding of forgiveness is upmost importance in your personal growth. Create this understanding with a life coach and gain the skills it takes to reach your goals in all area of your life.